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First words of friendship

by Rixie Online Now Jun 3, 2012 at 1:16 PM

What were the first words that your best friend and/or spouse said to you, or vice versa?

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    by pieter_jan_v Online Now Jun 3, 2012 at 2:58 PM

    Shut up (or something similar). Sometimes is just time for action! PJ

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    by travelgourmet Online Now Jun 3, 2012 at 4:03 PM

    To my spouse, at the law office she worked for as a legal assistant. I said,"Hello, I am here to see (Name of Attorney)." I was in need of a divorce. Needless to say my fancy for my future bride took me by surprise as getting out of a marriage that was not working well and upon seeing my attorney's legal assistant and mentioning to my friend that I was going to marry this girl that I didn't even know the name of seemed a bit crazy to all that knew me. Well it took 2 years of dating and 43 years of marriage to this women, before she walked out and is now staying with my attorney. The fickle finger of fate really slapped me with a wowzer on this one. When they say one has gone full circle, it certainly fits for me. I am now on a friendly basis with my first wife. My attorney,needless to say, won't be the same one for this divorce. My spouse of 43 years. I learned her name, loved her for 45 years, 43 married. We may not make it to 44. lol

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    by tropicrd Online Now Jun 3, 2012 at 4:06 PM

    When I was introduced to my darling man and I heard his name,my first word was 'woof' I had never met any man called Rex before but plenty of dogs with that name.He laughed at me and his first word was G'day.(G'daaaaaaaaaaaay) That was over 43 years ago. D :o)

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    by cachaseiro Online Now Jun 3, 2012 at 4:27 PM

    "I didn't know you had a fat one Claus" "biggest in 4 counties"

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    by cachaseiro Online Now Jun 3, 2012 at 4:27 PM

    Ah ok. That was taken from a movie, but it was almost true :)

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    by Dester Online Now Jun 3, 2012 at 5:03 PM

    To my best friend, I don't know, he was my little brother, passed in 2000. To my soon to be spouse? I held her hand and looked into her eyes for an eternity.I don't know for sure what we finally said. :-)

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    by Rixie Online Now Jun 3, 2012 at 7:20 PM

    My first words to my friend Rebecca when we were in the same class as 12 year olds: "Do you have a pencil I can borrow?" I had brought only one, and the point on it broke. It was kind of a boring first line, but we're still friends today. The man who eventually became my husband had an intriguing opening line: "Dennis was throwing out the trash the other day..." Now, come on, Dave. Your first meeting was in the recent past, so you should be able to remember what you said to each other. :)

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    by Dester Online Now Jun 3, 2012 at 7:43 PM

    I don't remember what I said exactly Laverne,,but she said "I don't drink coffee, but I will have a coke" :-)

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    by tropicrd Online Now Jun 3, 2012 at 7:43 PM

    Dave,could your 'sweetheart' possibly be a VT member and if so is that why you are keeping her a secret? I have an enquiring mind Lol!

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    by Borisborough Online Now Jun 3, 2012 at 10:11 PM

    "You can't be a local with an accent like that!"

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    by JessieLang Online Now Jun 3, 2012 at 11:24 PM

    So, Dave--How does she feel about trucks?

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    by anilpradhanshillong Online Now Jun 4, 2012 at 2:09 AM

    1. To best friend after a minor misunderstanding: "Wanna fight?" When the rukcus subsided, we were both almost expelled from primary school! 2. To my future wife, who was wearing a gold chain and a large pendant: "Lovely chain". She replied: I won it at the Olympics!" (August, 1973)

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    by Rixie Online Now Jun 4, 2012 at 6:39 AM

    Great first conversation, Anil. I like her sense of humor.

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    by Dester Online Now Jun 4, 2012 at 7:30 AM

    =@Dorrisse and Jessie, she's not a vt'er but is a traveler and she loves trucks, her dad is a trucker, and also my Pastor!

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    by tayloretc Online Now Jun 4, 2012 at 7:58 AM

    I was with a group of people, he just came and sat down. Fortunately, we shared the same sense of humor, or he might have taken it wrong: "Who are you and why are you here?" (Context is everything.)

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    by lmkluque Online Now Jun 4, 2012 at 8:40 AM

    If it was a million years ago for Keti, it must have been three million years ago for me! In general I would guess that my first word was, "Hi!" Said with a smile. Larry, After all this time? I am so sorry to read it.

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    by travelgourmet Online Now Jun 4, 2012 at 12:06 PM

    Linda, O Queen of San Diego, I am sad I had to write it. :-(

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    by betska Online Now Jun 4, 2012 at 5:00 PM

    @ Dave.....y'all had better make sure the invites are in the post...or me & Rixie will come beat you up!!!

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    by Josilver Online Now Jun 4, 2012 at 7:22 PM

    It was NYE. He had previously dated my sister which ended acrimoniously, his father had recently passed away. I said hello and he gave me the filthiest stink eye ever. I tried not to take it personally. Several years later we both attended dinner with a bunch of couples who spent the entire night discussing wedding photographers. As the only single people there the topic didnt interest us and bonded over a drink and discussions about wilderness first aid.

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    by Dester Online Now Jun 4, 2012 at 8:49 PM

    At Bets a..... PROMISE!!!!

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    by fairy_dust Online Now Jun 4, 2012 at 9:41 PM

    Though I'm not married (yet), I've been dating someone off and on for over a year. We met at an event involving a dance party and the first thing he said to me was "do you want to dance?" He was the first and last person I danced with that night (and many times in between too).

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    by Martin_S. Online Now Jun 4, 2012 at 11:29 PM

    She said to me: "Straighten your back and salute". She was, at one point, my commander in the army. Martin

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    by anilpradhanshillong Online Now Jun 5, 2012 at 12:14 AM

    @Martin_S=I'm sure she still is ;-)

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    by FridgeMagnet Online Now Jun 5, 2012 at 3:49 AM

    Probably something like Goo Goo Gaa Gaa!! I met him when I was about 2!

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    by Martin_S. Online Now Jun 5, 2012 at 11:35 PM

    Anil, you are right of course, she still is my commander, but at least I do not have to salute today ^O^ Martin

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    by Rixie Online Now Jun 6, 2012 at 7:00 AM

    It's important to establish rank right from the beginning. :)

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    by anilpradhanshillong Online Now Jun 6, 2012 at 10:39 PM

    True! But somewhere along the line, the 'weaker sex' becomes the 'stronger sex'!

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    by lmkluque Online Now Jun 7, 2012 at 9:53 AM

    >>>But somewhere along the line, the 'weaker sex' becomes the 'stronger sex'! Anil, I would say it's more of the case that the "weaker sex" has always been stronger and that, "somewhere along the line the "stronger sex" finally realized it. :-)

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    by fairy_dust Online Now Jun 7, 2012 at 10:08 AM

    In this vid, the member of the "weaker sex" gives a major verbal beating to the member of the "stronger sex" after he taunts her for being a woman who wants a "man's job". youtube.com/watch?v=Xst0VHvw...

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    by lmkluque Online Now Jun 7, 2012 at 10:24 AM

    Amelie, I can't watch videos on my computer, but I wish I could see that one.

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